tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-57717470233529798422024-02-07T21:05:22.351-06:00Nikki's Nutshell- Just a little bit about my life and the awesome people in it. -Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.comBlogger1250125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-22638867154761828912014-01-09T07:58:00.004-06:002014-01-09T07:58:35.463-06:00Don't LitterThrow your trash in a garbage can, PEOPLE. It's not that hard!
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Lately, that page has been a source of angst. For some reason, the hot topic of vaccinating your children has come up a lot recently. The majority of those women are anti-vaccines and it stresses me out to no end. I think it is sad that so <a href="http://edition.cnn.com/2013/09/12/health/worst-measles-year/" target="_blank">many children have been infected with measles</a> when it is a completely avoidable situation.</div>
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I have worked in vaccine research and development for years now, so I have seen many examples as to why this work is done. Thankfully, one mom recently posted <a href="http://bostonwed-murakami.blogspot.com/2013/09/vaccination-laypersons-perspective_26.html?spref=fb&m=1" target="_blank">this amazing blog post</a> with link after link after link to various sites promoting vaccinations. It is a GREAT read and I recommend it if you have children or know anyone with children. Keeping up with your boosters as an adult are key in preventing unvaccinated infants from becoming infected.</div>
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There is no way for me to convince someone to take in the <a href="http://www.cdc.gov/" target="_blank">CDC</a> with even a modicum of trust when they have already decided they are corrupt. But I am heartbroken for their children. The best I can say is luckily for them they live in a country with great medical abilities, so if their children get avoidable diseases their chance of survival is much higher than those who live in countries without these vaccines. People in third world countries would give anything to receive the vaccines that are so readily available to us. It's saddening to think so many people throw this concept in the trash.</div>
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<br />Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-54912449148396880942013-10-30T13:56:00.002-05:002013-10-30T13:56:44.563-05:00The Three FrogsI heard a great metaphor this morning and wanted to share it. I also wanted to save it for myself so I don't forget.<br />
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Three frogs were climbing a pole. Every day, a man who passed by the pole would say, "You're never going to make it. It's too high." Finally, one day, the man was making his regular pass-by and noticed one frog had made it to the top, while the other two were sitting at the bottom. Amazed, the man wanted to know how he did it, so he asked. When the frog didn't respond one of the frogs at the bottom replied, "He can't hear you. He's deaf."<br />
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The moral of this story? Don't listen to the people who are trying to bring you down. If you try hard enough, you'll make it in whatever you task to do.Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-31032620309540302932013-10-07T13:43:00.000-05:002013-10-07T13:46:40.562-05:00Our first loss as a family<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: justify;">
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This weekend, Bella (pronounced "Baya") died. It was unexpected. She was our first pet together as a couple. We got her only a few short months after moving into our first apartment together. She was our baby kitty and our family. </div>
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Poor Travis. He had to do it all on his own and I feel horrible about that. I wish I could have been there for him. I wish I could have been there for Bella. But I didn't want to bring the kids to that. I thought it would only stress out Bella more. Travis was pretty distraught Sunday afternoon. He tries to act tough, but he has a soft side. Seeing a guy in distress makes it so much worse, doesn't it?</div>
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<br />Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-20593593154721614982013-09-20T21:09:00.001-05:002013-09-20T21:09:42.302-05:00Say No to Bullying<a href="http://youtu.be/ltun92DfnPY">http://youtu.be/ltun92DfnPY</a>Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-50230937994035877892013-07-15T10:52:00.003-05:002013-07-15T10:52:58.689-05:00Time Scales<div style="text-align: justify;">
My dad went in for his bloodwork last week. The creatinine was still too high for the CT scan so he has an appointment to go back this week and check again. This waiting is driving me crazy! But the doctor seems comfortable with the time scale we're working on right now. He said its not a particularly fast moving form, so we don't need to worry about anything drastic happening between now and when they can get a good picture of the whole thing. Plus, if he gets it now, the iodine might kill him. So, you know. Worth the wait.</div>
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Came across this video about a girl who wanted to learn to <a href="http://danceinayear.com/" target="_blank">dance in a year</a>. It's impressive. </div>
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They unplugged everything except for the kidney tubes, made him stay for 24 hours to make sure nothing failed then sent him home Thursday evening! Ariel has been staying with him to make sure he's okay and to help him around the house. His swelling was entirely gone, so he looks much better. He was most excited about being able to roll over in bed because he's not plugged in everywhere.</div>
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He's expecting to go back to the hospital this week to get blood drawn. If the renal values are low enough they'll schedule his CT scan. I'm hoping everything goes smoothly!</div>
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The first couple days in the hospital were the worst. The doctors said because my dad's kidneys are not working properly, the waste that normally leaves in the urine was staying in his blood. Those toxins in the blood were causing some confusion for him. He was really out of it, so he didn't really understand what we told him. When he thinks back on those first few days he's says it's really fuzzy. Those toxins also cause muscle tremors and itchy skin (when the <a href="http://medical-dictionary.thefreedictionary.com/uremic+frost" target="_blank">urea escapes the blood through the skin</a>, it causes dry skin). He also had trouble accepting the fact that he was seriously ill and needed to be in the hospital. I think it was day 3 or 4 when he said, "I feel like I should be here."</div>
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The first week he had a catheter and was on IV fluids. They gave him lots of pills to help with his high heart rate and malnutrition, occasionally for his high blood pressure. They were hoping after his bladder was relieved, his kidneys would improve on their own. Sadly, that was not the case and he started going in for <a href="http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/kidney-dialysis" target="_blank">dialysis</a> every other day. The doctors said there was still hope that his kidneys could recover, but the dialysis would speed up that process for him. </div>
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On Tuesday, a week after he was admitted, he went in for the bladder scope. The urologist was hoping to cauterize the bleeds and take a look around. Unfortunately, when he was in there he found it wasn't a bunch of little bleeds in the bladder wall, so much as a large bleeding tumor. He removed as much as he could, but after giving him 4 bags of blood decided to cauterize everything and back out. </div>
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The plan is to do the CT scan and see how extensive the cancer is. Hopefully it's only in his bladder and they can just take the dang thing out. If they do that, they will most likely perform a <a href="http://www.webmd.com/cancer/bladder-cancer/cystectomy-for-bladder-cancer" target="_blank">bladder reconstruction</a> out of his intestine. </div>
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The doctor also found that the tumor was blocking his kidneys from emptying properly which explains why his kidney values weren't improving like they hoped. A day or two after the cystoscopy he had a <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ureterostomy" target="_blank">bilateral ureterostomy</a> (tubes from his kidney through his skin). So many tubes. Getting out of the bed takes five minutes because of all the things that need to be unplugged or rearranged.</div>
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At the moment his is mostly unplugged. The ureteral bypass tubes have to stay until the tumor is addressed. Crossing my fingers that he can remain unplugged.</div>
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Somewhere back in January of this year (when we were <a href="http://nrward82.blogspot.com/2013/01/whirlwind-week-in-illinois.html" target="_blank">visiting for Christmas</a>), my dad started having some urinary tract symptoms. I don't want to go into too much detail for his privacy, but I want to point out that this didn't exactly happen over night. My dad was planning to come visit in Texas immediately after we left and bring back Callaway. His symptoms prevented him from coming. He said he was going to get better, then come down later. </div>
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Weeks go by and I start urging him to go to the doctor. He's always been healthy (as far as we can tell), so he has managed to avoid seeing a doctor for decades. I'd bet he hasn't seen one since he and my mom were married (prior to 1996). My dad's a "don't worry about it" kind of guy so I don't know the details on his health. He lives alone, so I've kind of always worried something would happen to him at home and no one would know about it. I always figured it would be a heart problem since those seem to run in his family.</div>
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About a month ago, his texting dwindled down to nothing. He used to message me at least five times a day so when he stopped, I got suspicious. The week of my wedding anniversary I called him to see how he was doing and he sounded horrible. His voice was weak and he complained about being so tired that he had to sleep every afternoon. There were several new symptoms, all of them worth a visit to the doctor. He'd told me he'd been to the doctor a month prior. Obviously, the medication wasn't working so I urged him to go again. He seemed really out of it. The next day, my sister called after having a similar phone conversation with him. </div>
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In fear, I decided to go behind his back and call his good friends to see if they would go check on him. When I talked with the wife, she admitted that he hadn't been out for Whiskey Wednesday with her husband in over a month. They used to meet every Wednesday to try out fancy whiskeys at one of the bars in town. My dad is the poster child for 'social butterfly', so this news scared me even more. That night (Friday), she called me back to give me the update.</div>
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I was on the road to Austin to visit friends for the weekend. She recounted her husband's visit and it was horrible. She said my dad was pale and had no energy to stand. He had told me he hasn't been eating much lately so I asked if he looked like he'd lost weight. She said he was so swollen, she couldn't tell if he'd lost weight. I called Ariel and that's when we decided to drive to Illinois (I looked into plane tickets, but the last-minute cost was outrageous.) Unfortunately, I was almost to Austin by this point. We opted to use the weekend to make arrangements for our jobs and my family, then leave first thing Monday morning.</div>
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We got a late start on Monday, so we didn't get in until 4 am Tuesday. We didn't tell our dad we were coming and went straight to our mom's. In the morning, we went to the store and bought some easy to prepare foods and drinks, then headed over to his job site. We didn't know where he was, so we were discussing which way to go in when we heard a weak, "You're not supposed to be here..." It took me a moment to find where my dad was sitting. He was slumped on a bench between two trees not moving at all. <i>He looked horrible</i>. Exactly as his friend has described.</div>
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He asked what we were doing there and we told him it was a Father's Day surprise. We know how much he has fought going to the doctor so we didn't want to scare him away immediately. But then he said he felt bad because he didn't have the energy to do the fun stuff we probably wanted to do. I told him we just wanted to go to his house and make him lunch. He immediately refused and said he'd rather go out for pizza. At this point, I knew he was avoiding us going to his house. Our college-aged brother had gone by to bring him food a couple weeks prior and said our dad had apologized constantly about the smell and mess. He hadn't had the energy to clean the house and Callaway was having accidents inside. </div>
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It took some coaxing, but we convinced him to let us come over. Ariel drove his car and I played chauffeur. The house was dusty, but I didn't notice any odor. Alex had come over the weekend before to take Callaway for him. He must have cleaned up that mess. The one thing I did notice is how hot it was. He complained about being so cold all the time. </div>
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Dad obviously did not want us in the house, so he announced we were going to the pool. He was in no state to walk anywhere. To appease him I said, "Sure, go get changed." It took him HALF AN HOUR to change clothes. He was wiped out so I told him to go take a nap. While he was sleeping we cleaned his house and did some laundry. When he woke up I listed off all his symptoms together and explained he was going to the doctor and we weren't leaving until he did. Hoping he would take the bait, I gave him three options: his previous doctor, urgent care or the ER. He said he didn't like his doctor, "so I guess take me to urgent care." It was weak annoyance on his part. He honestly didn't have the energy to fight us.</div>
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We hobbled back to the car and headed to the ER (where I wanted to go from the start). They brought him in back immediately. I am seriously impressed with the efficiency, cleanliness and friendliness of that hospital and all it's employees when compared to ours in Texas. No wonder it's a <a href="http://www.nursecredentialing.org/Magnet.aspx" target="_blank">Magnet hospital</a>.</div>
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The doctors announced the mass was his entirely-too-full bladder. Something was blocking the proper flow of things and it caused <a href="http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/acute-renal-failure-topic-overview" target="_blank">renal failure</a>. His kidney values were through the roof. They worked their magic to relieve his immediate discomfort and admitted him that night. We were back at my mom's by midnight. </div>
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A week after he was admitted, the doctor was finally able to do a <a href="http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/cystoscopy-16692" target="_blank">cystoscopy</a> and found a large tumor in his bladder. He removed two thirds of what he could see. The pathology report stated it was <a href="http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/malignant" target="_blank">malignant</a> <a href="http://www.webmd.com/cancer/bladder-cancer/default.htm" target="_blank">bladder cancer</a>. The next step is to do a <a href="http://www.webmd.com/a-to-z-guides/computed-tomography-ct-scan-of-the-body" target="_blank">CT scan</a> to determine the extent of the tumor. They use iodine (a dye) in that procedure, but it is renal toxic. After his kidneys recover, they will do the scan.</div>
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Ariel and I spent as much of our time as possible in the hospital with him for two weeks. I needed to come home to attend to my family and get back to work, but Ariel chose to put her job on hold and stay with our dad. I'm going to try to get back on here and give some more details about what happened during those two weeks soon. </div>
Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-76496225891279338882013-06-10T09:38:00.000-05:002013-06-10T09:38:57.664-05:00About My Mom<div style="text-align: justify;">
A few years ago, my mom moved into a not-so-awesome area, but the price was right for her retiree income so she took the opportunity. She recently made friends with some of her neighbors. On one hand, I'm ecstatic she has people nearby to visit with regularly. The thought of her sitting at home all by herself, day after day, eats at me. On the other hand, her options out there are limited.</div>
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One year ago today, <a href="http://nrward82.blogspot.com/2012/05/mila-carol.html" target="_blank">our little girl was born</a>. It was a <a href="http://nrward82.blogspot.com/2012/05/delivery-day.html" target="_blank">totally different birthing experience</a> from when I had Aiden - in a good way. </div>
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Aiden and her get along great. Of course Aiden gets annoyed with her when she climbs on the toys he's playing with. Mila gets annoyed when he won't give her what he's playing with. Typical siblings. </div>
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This Mother's Day was a little different than the past few years. We usually go to the beach with some of my other mother friends. This time we decided to give camping a try. We haven't gone since before Aiden was born. This trip was a little different from past experiences since it focused more on the kids than ourselves. We didn't want to go far in case there was an emergency with the kids, so we went to Huntsville State Park just north of Houston. We reserved two campsites and shared with two of my co-workers' families. One family has a boy the same age as Aiden, the other a 5-year-old girl.</div>
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Saturday morning we packed up the truck and headed to the park. We set up camp and then all went canoeing on the lake.</div>
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Mila fell down in the canoe, so I immediately scooped her to make sure all was well. When I set her down and looked around I could no longer locate my paddle. The good news? I got to enjoy the rest of the trip and let Travis do all the work. He didn't seem to mind though.</div>
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Aiden wanted to try out one of the kid's bikes, that's a bit bigger than his. I showed him how he could use the pedals to brake just like on his bike and also the hand brake. The two kids walked next to him while he rode. He started to speed up and made it around the corner before I could get him to stop. He made it around the bend and picked up even more speed going down a hill. Instead of using any of the brakes, he tried to drag his feet on the ground. Since it was a bigger bike, he was unable to reach the ground. He turned around and looked at me with a face full of fear. It was horrible. I was looking at his t-shirt and shorts and imagining the road rash we'd be dealing with. He dove off the bike (or fell? not sure...) and the bike continued down the hill and t-boned the red car you can see in the photo above.</div>
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Camping with a baby was a little hard. Mila can't walk quite yet and I didn't want her crawling around in the dirt eating pine needles. I brought enough bottles that I only had to wash them once so we had enough to get us home on Sunday. This trip was probably easier than it would have been if it were just us because one of the other families bought and prepared all the food. One less thing for me to worry about! I would love to go camping again soon, but preferably after Mila can walk and is off formula. Though that might not be very far away...</div>
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Mila turns one on Saturday. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!! Where has the time gone?? I know all parents say that, but boy does it hit home.</div>
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Despite her inner ear issues, Mila is learning to toddle. She cruises along furniture everywhere and has taken an unassisted step here or there, but yesterday she decided to take things a little farther. When I picked her up from daycare, the teacher had her standing up. She took a step back and coaxed Mila to her. She took 6 steps all by herself!! </div>
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Aiden took his first steps a week before he turned one. I spent a little time <a href="http://nrward82.blogspot.com/2010/06/our-little-toddler.html" target="_blank">remembering that</a>... :)</div>
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Mila's ear infection/fluid on the ears will not go away. I made an appointment with her pediatrician last Monday so we could <a href="http://nrward82.blogspot.com/2013/04/milas-ear-infection.html" target="_blank">discuss everything</a>: Three months, four antibiotics for her ears, two topical ointments and an oral anti-fungal for diaper rash (as a result of oral antibiotics and subsequent diarrhea) and she STILL has fluid on her ears. Thankfully it wasn't a full on infection, so the doctor sent home a prescription for a fifth antibiotic in case she developed a fever before I could get her in with the pediatric Ears Nose and Throat (ENT) specialist. </div>
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The appointment with the ENT was yesterday. We never had to fill the fifth antibiotic. SHOO. Before we saw the doctor, Mila had a hearing test. It was hilarious. I was trying so hard not to laugh and distract Mila the whole time. We sat in a chair in the middle of a tiny sound proof room. There were three speakers: one in front of us and one on either side. Next to each speaker was a TV screen and a box with a remote control toy inside. The hearing specialist went back and forth between sound frequencies/voice recognition on the speakers, pictures on the TV's, and movement with the remote control toys. Mila turned her head to look at things when they made noises. I wonder what she was thinking. It was so strange.</div>
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Afterwards, the hearing doctor explained that Mila was just a little outside the normal hearing chart. They did something where they put headphones on that touched the bone behind her ear. She said that way they could bypass her eardrums to test her hearing. She passed that part fine, which means it's just the fluid impeding her hearing, not any permanent damage. Yay!</div>
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A little while later we were sitting with the ENT. She said only 6% of children still have fluid on their ears, three months after their initial ear infection. Mila is part of the 6%, so she recommends getting tubes put in her ears. So, surgery it is! Her surgery is scheduled for May 28th, the day after Memorial Day. I know it's not a serious surgery, but it's still going to be so hard to hand her off to the nurse while she's wearing tiny baby scrubs. =(</div>
Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-23392759594771406912013-04-26T07:00:00.000-05:002013-04-26T07:00:17.713-05:00Eating MetalThis is actually a little gross.<br />
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<li><a href="http://abcnews.go.com/topics/news/boston-marathon-explosion.htm" target="_blank">Boston Marathon Explosion</a> - Two deadly explosions at the finish line killing three people and injuring 170 (including trauma severe enough that limbs have been amputated). </li>
<li><a href="http://usnews.nbcnews.com/_news/2013/04/17/17794663-feds-arrest-suspect-in-ricin-positive-letters-sent-to-obama-senator?lite" target="_blank">Ricin letters</a> - A conspiracy theorist sent two letters filled with the toxin ricin to President Obama and the U.S. Senator of Mississippi.</li>
<li><a href="http://www.dallasnews.com/news/local-news/20130417-live-video-explosion-injuries-reported-at-fertilizer-plant-near-waco-in-west-texas.ece" target="_blank">Explosion at a fertilizer plant in West, Texas</a> - 15 people dead, almost 200 injured, town evacuated. And <a href="http://abcnews.go.com/blogs/headlines/2013/04/live-updates-west-texas-fertilizer-plant-explosion-injures-more-than-100/" target="_blank">here is one reason</a> why it scares me when people flock towards devastation (fires, tornadoes, hurricanes, etc).</li>
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Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-4051356351663114272013-04-17T09:39:00.000-05:002013-04-17T09:39:32.496-05:00Keeping Up<div style="text-align: justify;">
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Travis and I gave in and hired a housekeeper. For the time being we have her set to come every other week. If we need to push it out to every three or four weeks we might do that later. She came yesterday for the first time. I spent Monday evening in Urgent Care, then last night was T-ball. I was driving home from practice trying to remember what state our house was in when I remembered she had come earlier. I had to be very careful with my gas foot because it suddenly got really heavy at the prospect of what was waiting for us.</div>
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That woman cleaned things I haven't thought about cleaning since before I had kids. She dusted the top of our door trim! She took everything off my nightstand and dusted that! (I usually dust around those items.) She moved a side table away from the wall in the kitchen to sweep and mop! <i>She cleaned our microwave.</i> </div>
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Seriously. This is a big deal. I don't have time to do many things. Other items get done once a month or sometimes even longer apart. The only items I take care of every day or week are my kids, dishes and laundry. Everything else happens when I have time. I barely even have time to sit down for dinner. The longest stretch of time I get to sit with my plate is five minutes. The rest of the meal is spent feeding Mila, getting Aiden seconds, cleaning up the food or drink someone spilled, etc. But those five minutes are usually filled with guilt. That's when I sit still long enough to notice the dust building up on my curtains, or the cobwebs that have formed in the corners. I always wonder, <i>when will I have time to clean that?</i> </div>
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I used to keep an immaculate home. All my free time, when Travis was at work, was spent cleaning. That free time is now filled with other more important items, so I feel comfortable saying I am <i>happy</i> to have a housekeeper. She was super nice, though I will never see her. She comes during the day while we are at work. Hence the lock box. We have a key lock box (like realtors use) to let her in while we're away. This way she doesn't have our key all the time.</div>
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The past two months have been a little stressful with Mila. She's had an ear infection that just will not go away. She had two different oral antibiotics, then we tried the shot and now she is on Augmentin. They gave her a crazy high dose, so she has an upset stomach and lots of diarrhea. Like five times a day. We started the newest med this past Thursday, so the diarrhea didn't get going until Friday night. Since I was around to keep an eye on her, I was able to change her diaper the moment I heard her blowin' it up. By Saturday morning she'd developed a rash I'd never seen before - some in her diaper, some down her leg. I called our pediatrician's nurse help line. The nurse was unsure what to do, so he called the doctor, who in turn said to bring her in if it got worse. At that point, we didn't know if it was diaper rash (why would it be down her leg?) or an allergic reaction. Sunday afternoon it seemed to be getting better so we didn't bring her in.</div>
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Monday (yesterday) evening, Mila's teacher told me she had horrible diaper rash. I looked at it as soon as we got out to the car and sure enough, it had gotten worse. Raw, broken skin. It looked bloody, but there was no blood in her diaper. I ran through the McDonald's drive-thru for Aiden, dropped off the casserole I had brought down at my friend's mom's house (her husband died a couple weeks ago) and then headed to Pediatric Urgent Care. </div>
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We walked in the door at 5:45. I guess I've never been on a Monday evening, because that place was FULL. Every chair was filled. I guess I have seen it that way, but Aiden was over a year old, so I took him to the regular urgent care clinic next door. I checked in Mila, Aiden made friends with one of the kids waiting (who was thankfully in for a bug bite, not a sickness) and we started our wait. </div>
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You know in the movies, when there's a couple at a restaurant and some family is letting there child run around screaming, dragging their spoon on the back of everyone's chairs? Well that kid was in the waiting room last night. <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1lekVu44f4k" target="_blank">See here</a> for more info. He was around 2 years old, shoeless and wild. His mom kept trying to hold him on her lap to keep control, but he would just flail and scream. Then she'd give up for a bit and he'd crawl under all the chairs in the room, putting anything he could find in his mouth. He made it to the end of the chairs and another lady in the waiting room said, "Uh. He just put an orange peel in his mouth." The mom grabbed him when he crawled back and proceeded to pull out the orange peel, 5 fruit snacks and a rock. Thankfully he's was the first to get called in back.</div>
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Mila peed through her diaper onto my lap twice. I don't know why the diapers decided to stop working. Maybe they weren't on tight enough? Both times, I had to take her out to the car because I hadn't brought in any diapers. I don't carry a diaper bag with me during the week because we just go to daycare and back. I keep a couple extra in the trunk of my car for situations like this. But each time I had to go out, I was trying to hurry so I didn't miss getting called in back. I was out in the sun on Sunday without sunscreen so my shoulders are burnt. I was carrying my purse on my shoulder, plus Mila will not sit on my hip because it hurts her too much. Instead she clings to my shoulders like a baby monkey. Normally it wouldn't be so bad. With fried shoulders it's a little uncomfortable.</div>
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I was next in line to be called in back and a family comes running in carrying a limp child who's eyes are rolling back in his head. I'm not a doctor, but that seemed more like a trip to the ER or maybe even taking a ride in the ambulance. Anyway, obviously that kid got to go ahead of us. </div>
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FINALLY at 7:30 we got called back. The nurse took Mila's vitals and the doctor walked in right away. She took one look at her and prescribed two ointments. She took a sample to run a culture to check for staph. We are medicating for staph anyway, since the culture won't be ready to read until Wednesday. So! Over to Walgreen's. </div>
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I checked in at 8 o'clock (Aiden's bedtime and an hour after Mila's) with the pharmacist. She said one of the meds needed to be compounded and it would take 30 minutes. I pulled the car around to a spot, gave Mila a blanket and Aiden my phone (thank goodness for YouTube) and waited <i>again</i>. I pulled into the drive-up at 8:30 and they said it would be another moment. Fifteen minutes later another car pulled up behind me and I decided to drive around so that car could be helped. At 9 pm, they gave me the medications. The pharmacy tech said, "Sorry you had to wait so long. We don't mix up that ointment until the customer arrives because of cost reasons."</div>
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If that glass was not there I think I would have slapped that woman. If I would have known that, then I would have sat at that window from the start. I only pulled around so other people could get through. I was too irritated (sunburnt, tired, hungry, two tired/cranky kids) to go sit inside. I decided to give her the benefit of the doubt and assume she was making up excuses for why it took so long.</div>
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Despite eating 5 of Aiden's leftover fries and 4 whole Jolly Ranchers, I was starving. I just wanted to go home, gorge myself, and sleep. What I really did was go home, get the kids ready for bed, medicate Mila (pure torture for her <i>and</i> me), eat a cup of couscous salad while watching some news coverage on the horrific Boston bombing, listen to Travis while he showed me how to use a lock box he bought that day (I'll try to remember to write about that later), clean up the house, THEN get ready for bed. </div>
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These doctor appointments for Mila are $30 a pop. She has had 5 appointments for her ears and diaper rash. Plus antibiotic costs. It's been an expensive venture. Thankfully Mila is our problem child since our income is a little healthier than it was when we had Aiden. </div>
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Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-22154448835236113972013-03-12T09:33:00.000-05:002013-03-12T09:39:07.457-05:00Look Out!<div style="text-align: justify;">
We decided to put Aiden in T-ball this spring and I AM SO EXCITED!!!! It is so stinkin' cute. He had his first practice last week and he loved it. He seems to be right in the middle of the group, age-wise. It's a co-ed team, but there's only one girl. Aiden was really shy for the first 5 to 10 minutes, but then he worked his way into the group. For warm-ups the kids ran bases. When Aiden made his first way around, he ran directly to me instead of home plate. After the warm-up, they split the kids into two main groups, one with the head coach and the other with the assistant coach. Aiden ran back over to me a couple times. Once to ask if I saw what he did and once to ask for water. Travis was 30 minutes late because of work, but when he arrived he went out to help corral the kids. After that Aiden did better about staying with the team.</div>
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This past weekend we went to buy him gear. I sure hope he sticks with this for a while because sports equipment is expensive! There are only 4 bats amongst all the players, so we bought a bat. We also got a couple balls for us to practice with at home, cleats, socks, practice shirt, baseball pants and a Texans cap. The team colors are red and black, so we got him the <a href="http://www.academy.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/Product_10151_10051_559059_-1?color=Texans-Red%2FHot+Red&ICID=CRT:0641-03832-0000" target="_blank">red Texans hat</a> for him to wear to games, practices or just whenever. The team name is the Lookouts. As in, 'Look out! There's a ball headed your way!' Ha.</div>
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Practices are on Tuesdays. Last week we picked up fast food on the way up. I don't want to do that every week, so I made PB&J sandwiches for dinner tonight. We have to go straight from the daycare to the practice because it's so far away, so I packed it this morning. I decided to put him on a team up near where we want to move so Aiden has a chance to meet kids he might go to school with soon. Or at the very least, to make friends in the area. It's also easier on Travis since he works in that area. He can make it to the practices after work since we come up to him. If we put him in the league in Galveston, Travis would never make it to practices in time.</div>
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I can't wait for practice tonight! I just wish it was a little warmer...</div>
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It's been a LONG time - a long time since I've posted and a long time since I posted a Mila Milestone entry. The last one was when she was 4 months old. BAD MOM. You can also add a note to my Bad Mom Resume because I forgot to feed my daughter yesterday. She was being super cranky while we were out shopping when I realized I was TWO HOURS LATE feeding her a bottle. Gah. Poor thing. <br />
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Her 9-month check up with the doctor was last week. It was my favorite visit so far because there weren't any vaccinations! Wahoo! Here are her stats:<br />
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I knew something was wrong with her ears so I made sure to point it out to the doctor. It was bad enough that she would have noticed anyway. It's so hard trying to decipher what might be wrong with a tiny human who can't speak yet. I forgot how frustrating it can be. She's been rubbing her ears a lot for the past couple weeks and periodically had a low grade fever, but I kept thinking it might be related to the teething. The last appointment she had I was worried about an ear infection for these same reasons, but there was nothing wrong with her ears at that appointment. I was so sad she was in pain that could have been fixed and I did nothing. <br />
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Yesterday and today she is in much better spirits. She has this gravely chuckle whenever she sees Travis, Aiden or I. She thinks Aiden is hilarious. I usually put Mila to bed whenever she gets tired in the evening. During the week this can be as early at 6 pm (because she refuses to nap at daycare). On the weekends it's usually between 7 and 8. When I put her to bed early, I can focus on Aiden at his bedtime. But when I put her to bed at the same time as Aiden, I can read them books together, which is super cute. The downfall of simultaneous bedtimes (nap or at night) is they just sit in there and laugh at each other. Saturday I walked in when I heard them giggling over the baby monitor. Mila was standing and she fell onto her butt (on purpose) and they both started laughing. It's pretty darn cute, but a little frustrating.</div>
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Mila is a blast. I love her. She is so sweet. She loves hugs. She loves to be held, unless she wants to explore, and then it's 'leave me be, woman'. I was gone two weeks ago for a work trip. Mila had learned to pull up on the bath tub a couple days before I left. When I got back, she was pulling up on <i>everything. </i>A few days later she was <a href="http://www.daddylibrary.com/definition-of-cruising-for-babies/#axzz2NEmYL9xQ" target="_blank">cruising</a> around tables and furniture. Saturday she stood unassisted for the first time. Now she does it all the time. She pulls up on something, then lets go to put a toy in her mouth. She is growing TOO FAST. </div>
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Oh! She is a GREAT eater. She eats all the purées we offer her. I refuse to feed her that nasty, watery meat mush you can get in a jar, but we have been offering her the meat we all eat since the doctor's approval last week. She loves eating potatoes, puffs, frozen bananas, steak and all the fruit and veggie purées I offer. I haven't really run across anything she doesn't like <i>yet.</i> </div>
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I just took all the pictures off my phone, so here are the only three photos I have of her with me:</div>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">She loves the musical magnet farm that Aiden used to play with.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">In the nice weather, we've been going outside more recently. She likes to pick up every speck of dirt, plants and sticks she can get her hands on. The trick is to keep a close enough eye on her that she doesn't ingest them all.</td></tr>
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">My dad asked for a photo of us together. Mila was a little grumpy because of her ear infection/teething when I took this shot.</td></tr>
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And a quick comparison:<br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Neither baby has had a hair cut by this point.</td></tr>
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<br />Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-61887354356986679652013-02-22T08:52:00.002-06:002013-02-22T08:52:39.053-06:00In the Mirror<div style="text-align: justify;">
Have you ever heard of <a href="http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/body-dysmorphic-disorder/DS00559" target="_blank">Body Dysmorphic Disorder</a>? I think I have it. Well, not really, since it's considered an "obsession" with one's imagined flaws. I don't obsess over it, but I do think I view myself differently from how others do. For example:</div>
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I feel like this huge, clumsy, blob-thing. But then someone will say something about my appearance and to totally throws me off. Like the other day, one of my friends told me she always loves my natural makeup. I really try to go for the natural look, so that was a huge compliment for me. I constantly worry that I've got globs of makeup all over my face, like I'm doing it wrong. </div>
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Oh, the other day someone even said they like my <a href="http://0.tqn.com/d/beauty/1/0/M/N/1/drew-barrymore-ombre-hair.jpg" target="_blank">ombre hair</a>. I died. I don't purposely have ombre hair. I'm just attempting to grow out my highlights since I don't have the time or money to keep up with it. I guess I'll take what I can get.</div>
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Same thing goes for my size. I feel huge. Granted, not as huge as I used to be (see <a href="http://www.nrward82.blogspot.com/2012/05/39-weeks-3-days.html" target="_blank">here</a>). But lately I've gotten some compliments from people at work. It makes me feel GREAT, but every time someone says something nice I'm like, really? You see THAT? Huh. </div>
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It's so strange, like my eyes don't work or something.</div>
Nikkihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03637632533927306261noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5771747023352979842.post-41751573243763600892013-02-21T08:37:00.001-06:002013-02-21T08:37:44.844-06:00Charity<div style="text-align: justify;">
The other day we were stopped at a stop sign when Aiden saw the car in front of us giving money to a man standing on the side of the road. Aiden asked if we had to talk to the man too. I explained he was asking people for money. Aiden wanted to give him some, but I didn't have any cash. He then offered to give the man money from his piggy bank. I told him we didn't have time for that, so Aiden offered to bring it back at Christmas time. </div>
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"Why at Christmas?" I asked. </div>
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"Because I want to."</div>
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It was so sweet I teared up. I know money does not have the same value to him that it does to adults, but I was still impressed with his willingness to give away his belongings. Maybe he's not turning out so bad after all.</div>
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